I actually finished Blink some 3 or 4 months ago. I found it completely fascinating. Gladwell is able to write about some rather technical and complex ideas in a vernacular that makes it all seem so understandable and entertaining. This book caused me to take a look at the way I think about things, the way I make decisions, and the way I watch commercials. As I got to the end of the book, I got a little frustrated because it seemed that he was arguing both sides of a debate: is it better to go with your gut (because there is so much that we subconsciously understand) or is it better to really reason things out. It seemed to me that he spent half the book in either camp. But his concluding chapter reconciled all this. He describes how gut instincts are best for certain kinds of decisions, while reason and comparison are best for others. I won't spoil it by telling you which is which. :D Of course, we picked up The Deathly Hallows as soon as it was released. I'm proud to say that life as we knew it did not get put on hold for an all day read-a-thon. Our whole married life long, we've read these books together. Yes, we sit side by side and nod to each other when we are ready to turn pages. Actually, it is a really fun way to read a book because we can speculate about events as they unfold. But last summer, we were toooooo busy. I think I started it during our camping trip at Payson Lakes, and finished it on the way to Woodbadge. Cori didn't read it until a little later. I had to keep all my thoughts and predictions
to myself as I read. But we loved it, of course. Not only for its great literary merit (please read my sarcastic tone here), but for its wonderful fantasy and adventure. And we just wanted to know how it would all turn out. It was a fun little ride.As soon as we got home from the hospital, I started a few re-reads. On Becoming Babywise is the sleep-guide book I referenced most when Gracie was a baby. I noticed a few months ago that this issue of baby sleep was being discussed a whole lot in my little bloggy circle. It can be a bit of a touchy subject. I really love the approach and most of the methods suggested in this book. I never had to "Ferberize" Grace, and she started sleeping through the night fairly early, and has been a good sleeper overall. Though, I should say that I have nothing against the Ferber method. I don't find it cruel or abusive. I'm just very grateful I didn't have to use it. (Yet) Grant is a more fussy baby than Grace was, but he is developing good sleep habits too. I really attribute their success to following the methods in this book. I also like the book Secrets of the Baby Whisperer.



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Ha, Charming read Blink a few months ago, too. He thought it was interesting and read me the part about the statue at the beginning. I thought it was interesting, too, and made me think about my gut reactions more.
He also read Harry Potter. I think I'm the only person in the universe who hasn't read any of them (doesn't plan to--is that terrible?). But I had Charming tell me how it ended.
I read Babywise when I was pregnant with Bubbers and appreciated many of its tips (and couldn't figure out why so many people say it's "controversial"). The sleep, eat, stay awake routine works great for him. But I found it to be a bit too broad in its scope (covered everything from routines to reflux), and I wanted more in-depth information on sleeping.
Then I read "Healthy Sleep Habits Happy Child" which I am not a fan of in the slightest bit.
Then I read Ferber's "Solve Your Child's Sleep Problems" and it was hands-down the best baby sleeping book ever printed.
He's a fantastic writer (which all doctors are not, unfortunately). Not only did he actually teach me what sleep is in an easy-to-understand way, but he empowers you to understand what is going on with your child's sleep and make informed choices of what to do about it.
As a self-proclaimed Ferber fan, I'd like to point out that he doesn't actually advocate letting a child cry himself to sleep all alone. And Dr. Ferber himself said he's very disappointed that he's been so misunderstood and given that reputation.
So, it's a great book that was perfect for Charming and I, but not right for everyone.
Anyhow--sorry about another book for a comment. If you want me to can it, please don't hesitate to let me know, "Heidi, enough already!" :)
Jesse,
Sounds like I need to read those two baby books. Do you have any other good books on getting babies to sleep through the night. Ashton is still getting up at least twice a night to eat. : )
Britt
Bitt--
Y'all are doing a great job. No where in either of these books does it discuss what to do if your child has an undiagnosed digestive complication!
Jesse,
Who is On Becoming Babywise Written by? I love the Secerts of the Baby Whisperer, and have never heard of the other. I would like to check it out?
Heather
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